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Tell Me Who I Am

The Story Behind the Netflix Documentary

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Tell Me Who I Am

By: Joanna Hodgkin, Alex Lewis, Marcus Lewis
Narrated by: Ben Allen, Rachael Beresford
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Now an original Netflix documentary: the bestselling account of the love between brothers and the shocking legacy of a dangerous mother.

Imagine waking up one day to discover that you have forgotten everything about your life. Your only link with the past, your only hope for the future, is your identical twin.

Now imagine, years later, discovering that your twin had not told you the whole truth about your childhood, your family, and the forces that had shaped you. Why the secrets? Why the silences? You have no choice but to begin again.

This has been Alex's reality: a world where memories are just the stories people tell you, where fact and fiction are impossible to distinguish. With dogged courage he has spent years hunting for the truth about his hidden past and his remarkable family. His quest to understand his true identity has revealed shocking betrayals and a secret tragedy, extraordinary triumph over crippling adversity and, above all, redemption founded on brotherly love.

Marcus his twin brother has sometimes been a reluctant companion on this journey, but for him too it has led to staggering revelations and ultimately the shedding of impossible burdens.

Their story spans continents and eras, from 1950s debutantes and high society in the Home Counties to a remote island in the Pacific and 90s raves. Disturbing, funny, heart-breaking and affirming, Alex and Marcus's determination to rebuild their lives makes us look afresh at how we choose to tell our stories.

©2013 Alex Lewis (P)2013 Hodder & Stoughton Limited
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I loved this even though it was heartbreaking at times, and kept listening when I should have been working! An extraordinary and inspirational story about twins, their parents, friends and siblings.

A gripping and unexpected story!

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Easily one of the best narrations I have heard on Audible. Also an amazing story although full of sadness and poignancy.

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.....as these brave brothers said, how do we come out the other side not only alive but thriving and able not to hurt others as we have been. For survivers of cruelty and abuse with so many people taking pieces of our hearts and souls, the trail too often leads back to that one person whose self-hate and inability or unwillingness to rise above their need to see others hurt....one narcissistic person driven by a sick mind. It is a blessing to read this story and know they made it to the other side.

Brave sharing of self-discovery....

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The book is such a great because it lays out what happens to children, parents who abuse them and the trauma. The experience of secrets and trauma amongst twins. A must read! A great educational teaching for mental health professional, teachers, lawyers and lay community.

It must be read AFTER seeing the Netflix documentary. A must see!

The experience of trauma and abuse!

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the frankness with which the subject of abuse was amazing, clarity, open and honest. a brilliant book

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