This episode provides invaluable guidance on fostering a robust sexual relationship within marriage. We delve into essential tips that serve as a continuation of The Lover's Dozen series, emphasizing the significance of intentionality and commitment in achieving a fulfilling sex life.

Drawing upon our nearly 48 years of marriage, we express the importance of viewing intimacy not merely as a physical act, but as a complete expression of love and connection.

Our discussion further highlights the necessity of nurturing both emotional and spiritual bonds, as these elements are intricately linked to sexual satisfaction. By employing a proactive approach to intimacy, we aspire to equip couples with the tools necessary to enrich their marital experience and cultivate a rewarding sexual relationship.

Takeaways:

• Investing time in your marriage through resources like this podcast can enhance your relationship significantly.
• Engaging in regular conversations about intimacy can fortify the emotional connection between partners.
• The principles discussed in this episode are rooted in over 47 years of marriage and Christian teachings.
• A healthy sex life is crucial for a thriving marriage and requires intentional effort from both partners.
• Both partners should actively participate in nurturing their intimacy to ensure mutual satisfaction in their relationship.
• Addressing underlying issues, such as resentment or poor communication, is essential for a fulfilling sex life.

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• Scripture References: Ecclesiastes 9:9; Song of Solomon 7:1-9; Song of Solomon 1:2; Song of Solomon 4:10-11; Proverbs 5:18-19; Song of Solomon 7:10-12; Song of Solomon 8:4

The Fizzlers--Fizzlers - things that affect our sex life

Work, children, pressures, stress, fatigue, illness,

unfulfilled expectations, lack of knowledge, selfishness, abuse, bad

experiences, guilt, wrong viewpoints; prude; fear of pregnancy; the feeling of duty

sex, bad influences; parental upbringing/opinion, boredom.

Additional

“fizzlers” that can cause a low sex drive.

Hormone imbalances, illness (short-term or long-term),

medications, stress, depression, age, being pregnant, childbirth, unresolved

conflict, unresolved emotional issues, erectile dysfunction and premature

ejaculation, unsatisfying sex, relationship struggles, pain; vaginismus.

Plus our past can affect our sex life- like premarital

sex and previous marriages sex. Sexual abuse. A bad sexual experience.

Tips from The Lover's Dozen Series

• We learned how to understand each other and ourselves.
• We developed a passion to meet each other's needs.
• We realized demands in life may hinder our spouse’s ability to meet our needs.
• We are a team.
• We learn to communicate properly.
• We chill out and enjoy each other.
• We put on love.
• We've developed common interests.
• We do Boredom Busters.
• We fan the flame - ROMANCE.
• We go by the good book, the Bible.
• Sex - Fizzle or sizzle