I have something really cool to share today,

This is a conversation I had with Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast, where we talked about the modern dating dilemma of endless options and the fear of settling. We discussed the danger of always looking for “someone better” as a dating strategy, why we miss out on meaningful connections, and how to find a real relationship rather than optimizing for the perfect partner.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re always torn between chasing someone exciting or someone who brings you peace, this episode will help you create a love life that actually works for you.

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What could possibly be more painful than rejection? Turns out, there's one feeling that IS. In this week's Rewind episode, I reveal what it is and share the one mindset that will get you over your fear of rejection once and for all so you can finally put yourself "out there" without worrying about getting hurt again...

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Do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners? Are you dating someone who pulls away just when things get close? When this happens, it’s easy to feel lost and wonder if the person you’re dating is avoidant or simply not that interested.

In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive deep into the topic of avoidant attachment, exploring how it develops, signs to look for, and what you can do if you’re dating someone with avoidant behavior.

Topics Covered:

• The 5 key traits of avoidant partners.
  
  

• Why avoidants and anxious people are magnetically drawn to each other.
  
  

• Whether we overuse the “avoidant” label as a defense mechanism.
  
  

• How early experiences shape attachment patterns.
  
  

• What to do if you’re anxiously attached and dating someone avoidant.
  
  

• How to tell the difference between an avoidant and someone who just doesn’t want a relationship.
  
  

• How to anticipate the needs of a more independent partner.
  
  

• The importance of not mistaking emotional unavailability for “value.”
  
  

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