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Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

Mr and Mrs Therapy | EMDR Therapy, Trauma, PTSD, Healing Trauma, Communication, Anxiety, Depression, Relationship

By: Timothy Olson / Ruth Olson - Inspired by Brene Brown Mel Robbins Tony Robbins
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 ***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Is your trauma consuming you? Are you tired of constantly having anxiety or depression? Are you struggling to stop negative self talk? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? Are you fighting about the same things over and over again in your relationship? Do you have past hurts that still haunts you? In this podcast, you will find tools and resources to help you better understand yourself and your relationships. You’ll learn how to manage or even eliminate the constant anxiety, negative self talk, and feelings of overwhelm that you’ve been experiencing. Our mission is to equip you to be healthy mentally and relationally and to bring healing to past trauma that might be still affecting you today. If you’re ready to say yes to being the best version of yourself, have fulfilling and healthy relationships, and have a better life, - then you are in the right place! Hey, we’re Tim and Ruth! We’re licensed marriage and family therapists and trauma experts with over 30 years of combined experience. We’ve seen time and time again how people have tried to will themselves to be happy, muscle through it, and have ended up even worse off than when they began. We’ve noticed that people have experienced deep pain, whether it’s others who have hurt them or situations and the world just beating them down, and often they have turned that into an internal dialogue where they are mean...like really cruel in how they talk to themselves. They have anxiety, feel depressed and overwhelmed, all the while their self talk is telling them ”I’m not good enough, I’m a failure, I’m worthless, I’m not loveable, I cannot trust anyone, I am powerless, I’m not in control.” How emotionally exhausting! We’ve realized that people want to get out of that place, they just don’t know how. They feel lost, alone, and without hope. Mental health & recurring toxic relationships can feel like an uphill battle, but you are not alone in this, that’s where we come in! We offer specific steps, practical tools, strategies, and insights that will help you to overcome these ongoing battles and help you win the war! There is hope, and there certainly is healing! We can’t wait to share it with you! If you are ready to finally find ways to overcome your anxiety, stop your negative self talk, stop feeling like a burden, break free from co-dependency and toxic relationships, and stop letting your past run the show... and if you’re looking for changes that can transform your life, like improved mood, increased confidence, healthier relationships, and healing from the past that has kept you stuck for too long - this podcast is for you! Bring your drama and your trauma and lets get healing! We’d love to connect with you over in our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mrandmrstherapypodcast/Copyright 2023 All rights reserved. Christianity Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Spirituality
Episodes
  • Ep 276 - Harnessing Anger: Turning a Fiery Emotion into a Powerful Ally

    Ep 276 - Harnessing Anger: Turning a Fiery Emotion into a Powerful Ally
    Jun 12 2025

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    Welcome to the latest episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where your hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists, delve into the complex emotion of anger. With their extensive experience in addressing trauma and mental health disorders, Tim and Ruth guide you through the multifaceted nature of anger, viewing it as not merely a negative emotion but a messenger with important insights.

    Dive deep into understanding both the constructive and destructive aspects of anger, exploring its role as a secondary emotion that often masks more vulnerable feelings such as hurt, fear, and betrayal. Learn how mismanaged anger can lead to chronic stress, health issues, and damaged relationships, while also discovering how healthy anger can reinforce boundaries, underscore values, and empower personal action.

    In this enlightening episode, Tim and Ruth offer practical strategies to channel anger positively. From the importance of pausing before reacting and utilizing 'I' statements to exploring the root causes of anger, listeners will gain invaluable tools for turning emotional reactions into thoughtful responses. Furthermore, discover how physical movement can serve as an outlet for anger, aiding in emotional regulation and preventing it from becoming a destructive force.

    If you're on a journey to better emotional health or aiming to navigate your relationships more effectively, this episode offers a roadmap for managing anger in constructive ways. It’s a must-listen for anyone looking to transform emotional adversity into personal growth. Tune in, and let Tim and Ruth Olson guide you towards healthier expressions of your emotions and, ultimately, a more fulfilling life. Join the conversation and start your journey towards healing and self-discovery today.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    14 mins
  • Ep 275 - Unpacking Mental Loops: Calm Your Mind and Find Peace

    Ep 275 - Unpacking Mental Loops: Calm Your Mind and Find Peace
    Jun 10 2025

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    another enlightening episode of Mr. and Mrs. Therapy, where hosts Tim and Ruth Olson, experienced therapists and trauma experts, delve deep into the world of mental loops and their impact on mental health. In this episode, discover why you might feel trapped in these never-ending thought cycles and why they often emerge after experiencing trauma.

    Tim and Ruth discuss the three primary causes of mental loops: unfinished emotional business, perfectionism, and trauma responses. Learn how these factors can keep your brain relentlessly cycling through thoughts and scenarios in search of closure or safety.

    Furthermore, identify the difference between overthinking and anxiety and recognize how physical symptoms can accompany anxiety, making it harder to escape these thoughts.

    This episode offers practical tools you can implement today to interrupt these mental loops. From labeling your thoughts to calming your body before your mind, and using grounding techniques, learn actionable strategies that aim to bring peace and calm into your life.

    Whether you struggle with mental loops due to your past experiences or everyday stressors, this episode guides you on a path towards emotional freedom and healing. Join Tim and Ruth as they offer insight and wisdom to help you take control of your thoughts and find tranquility.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    17 mins
  • Ep 274 - 7 Tiny Habits for Big Changes: Transform Your Life

    Ep 274 - 7 Tiny Habits for Big Changes: Transform Your Life
    Jun 5 2025

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    Welcome back to the Mr. and Mrs. Therapy podcast, where Tim and Ruth Olson, licensed marriage and family therapists and experts in trauma, guide you through the journey of healing and personal growth. In this episode, they're diving into the power of microhabits - small, intentional actions that can lead to significant change over time.

    Tim and Ruth discuss seven specific microhabits tailored to aid those dealing with trauma, anxiety, or depression by introducing low-resistance practices that aid in mental and emotional well-being. Learn about naming your feelings to understand them better, the simplicity of a one-sentence journal, and the benefits of a breath and affirmation reset.

    You'll also discover how speaking kindly to yourself, setting micro boundaries, acknowledging the positives by vocalizing gratitude, and establishing a five-minute connection ritual with your partner can collectively transform your relationships and inner life.

    This episode offers practical steps backed by therapeutic insights to help rewire your brain and support a balanced nervous system, vital for anyone looking to heal and foster healthier relationships. Dive in and explore how these tiny habits can catalyze profound change, equipping you to navigate life's challenges with resilience and hope.

    [Remember, our podcast is here to spark conversations and offer insights. Join our community on our Mr. and Mrs. Therapy Podcast Group, share your experiences at podcast@mrandmrstherapy.com, and if you're seeking more personalized advice, consider booking your free coaching consultation. Please note, this podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment.]

    {Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended to provide diagnosis or treatment. For personalized support, please seek professional help or call the National Suicide Hotline at 988 if you or someone you know is contemplating suicide or needs emotional support.}
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    15 mins
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