Most leaders treat AI like a tool—like Excel on steroids.

But what if the real power of AI isn’t just faster output... but better thinking?

In this episode of The Fluent Edge, Sean Watson and Dr. Howie Jacobson explore how advanced English learners and forward-thinking professionals can treat AI not just as an assistant—but as a strategy partner, creative challenger, and emotional intelligence booster.

From designing prompts that push your thinking, to simulating team conflict without bruised egos, this episode is your guide to real AI fluency—for leadership that’s both sharp and human.

🔹 If you’ve ever wondered how to go beyond ChatGPT novelty and make AI part of your leadership stack—this one’s for you.

• The 3 Levels of AI Mastery for Leaders
• Why context, role, and constraint matter more than “the perfect prompt”
• How to build a simple 3-tool AI dashboard for yourself or your team
• How to use AI to depersonalize conflict and clarify communication
• Real use cases: lesson generators, nonviolent feedback GPTs, and more
• How voice dictation can make prompt creation feel like a conversation
• The one sentence Sean adds to every prompt to avoid confusion

• The CRIT Prompt Framework (Context, Role, Interview, Task)
• Custom GPTs for leadership, communication, and emotional intelligence
• Using AI to create dynamic ESL lesson templates
• The “invisible advisor” approach to leadership AI
• VoiceNotes + AI transcription = frictionless prompting
• AI as a tool for risk analysis, objection simulation, and de-escalation

• “You can’t read the label if you’re inside the box”
• Treating AI like a teammate—not just a tool
• Prompting as thinking, not just querying
• Why output quality = input clarity
• How vague prompts lead to scope creep

00:00 – Cold open: AI isn’t Excel on steroids—it’s your 24/7 strategy partner

00:48 – Intros: Sean & Howie on language + leadership

01:30 – Sean’s AI ‘aha’ moment: scaling quality with less effort

03:10 – How prompting gets smarter with practice

04:15 – The CRIT prompt method explained

06:20 – Using voice dictation to create natural prompts

07:10 – BCG study: 40% jump in quality from AI adoption

07:45 – Live demo: Sean’s ESL GPT and lesson template

10:00 – Prompt iteration = product iteration

11:00 – How AI helps depersonalize conflict and boost clarity

12:15 – Howie’s idea: a nonviolent communication GPT

13:00 – Why companies like Sanofi embrace experimentation

13:45 – Build your AI dashboard: 3 tools per quarter

14:30 – Prompt Pack walk-through: strategic planning example

16:00 – Closing thoughts: stay sharp, stay human, stay fluent

Pick one of your leadership challenges—conflict, brainstorming, feedback, or delegation—and write a CRIT-style prompt using the framework from this episode.

Then feed it into ChatGPT or your own custom GPT and see what you learn.

🧠 Bonus: Ask the AI to interview you to sharpen your thinking.

📥 Download Sean’s CRIT Prompt Pack

👉 https://tinyurl.com/yhmkvf5p

💼 Coaching with Sean – English Clarity, Fluency & Executive Presence

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Episode Description:

From cough to though to hiccough, English pronunciation often feels like a cruel joke—and it’s not your fault.

In this episode of The Fluent Edge, Sean Watson and Dr. Howie Jacobson uncover the historical, cultural, and accidental chaos that makes English sound so illogical. From Vikings and French invaders to Dutch printers who didn’t speak English, you'll learn why spelling and pronunciation rarely line up—and how understanding this mess can actually make you a better speaker.

🔹 If you've ever felt fluent but still unsure how to pronounce “colonel,” “plough,” or “debris”… this episode is your validation—and your solution.

• Why English sounds nothing like it looks
• How “ghost” got a silent H (thanks to a Dutch typo)
• Why OUGH has 8+ pronunciations
• How to pronounce tricky TH sounds (voiced & unvoiced)
• Why native speakers also mispronounce “chaos”
• How to stop blaming yourself and start training smarter

• Shadowing (to copy native rhythm + stress)
• IPA decoding (without becoming a linguist)
• Voice recording as a fluency feedback tool
• The “soldier on” pronunciation challenge
• Real reasons spelling reform hasn’t happened
• Why English isn’t broken—it’s just experienced

Tough, though, through, cough, hiccough, ghost, colonel, debris, plough, borough, soldier, knight

00:00 – Welcome & Episode Overview

01:00 – Why English feels like a trap (26 letters, 44 sounds)

02:00 – GHOTI = fish? Sean explains the chaos

03:00 – From Latin, Celtic, and Norse to Germanic

04:00 – French invaders and food words like “beef”

05:00 – Church Latin + Viking words like “sky”

06:00 – Dutch printers and silent letters

07:00 – IPA and mastering pronunciation tools

08:00 – Canadian vs. American vowels

09:00 – Why “shall” feels outdated

10:00 – Pronunciation hacks: shadowing + recording

11:00 – Accent drift and the future of English

12:00 – TH sounds explained with the touch-your-throat test

13:00 – The “hiccough” paradox and soldier challenge

14:00 – The Schwa: why “American” sounds like “Americən”

15:00 – Submit your voice! Pronounce “tough cough hiccough…”

16:00 – English is not broken—just a 2000-year remix

17:00 – Subscribe, Share, Coaching Links

Can you pronounce one or more of these sentences?

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💼 Coaching with Sean – English Clarity & Pronunciation

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Giving advice to soon feels helpful—but often backfires.

In this episode, Sean Watson and Dr. Howie Jacobson unpack why telling people what to do makes you the bottleneck… and how a simple reframe—“What might you try?”—can turn you into a better leader, teammate, teacher, or coach.

Whether you're managing a global team, supporting a friend, or just trying to avoid sounding like a know-it-all, this episode is your fluency and leadership reset.

🔹 If you’re fluent in English but still feel unsure how to sound more collaborative—or if you often over-help and under-empower—this one’s for you.

🎧 What You’ll Learn:

Why giving advice too early erodes trust (and what to do instead)

How “What might you try?” unlocks ownership and courage

Why emotional safety beats quick fixes in team dynamics

How modal verbs (like might, could, would) soften tone and invite collaboration

Subtle stress and pronunciation shifts that change meaning

Why smart leaders get stuck—and how to unstick yourself without solving everything

🛠️ Methods + Tools Mentioned:

The “What Might You Try” technique

The leadership bottleneck metaphor

Modal verbs for coaching-style communication (might, could, would)

Emotional courage & ownership as behavior change levers

Subtle tone shifts in pronunciation and delivery

Cultural insight: Why Dutch directness isn’t rude—it’s Dutch

📌 Timestamps:

00:00 – Welcome & Episode Preview

01:00 – Why Advice Backfires (Even When You Mean Well)

03:00 – Know-It-All Syndrome: The Hidden Status Message

05:00 – Leadership Bottlenecks: The Productivity Trap

07:00 – Emotional Courage & Ownership in Communication

09:00 – “What Might You Try?” vs “What Will You Do?”

11:00 – Modal Verbs for Softening Tone

13:00 – When Advice Feels Like Criticism

15:00 – How to Stay Curious (Even When You're Right)

17:00 – Stress Practice: What Might You Try?

19:00 – Meta-Talk and Cross-Cultural Feedback Tips

21:00 – Fluent Edge Challenge & Pronunciation Exercise

22:00 – Coaching Links & Wrap-Up

📬 Let’s Connect:

🎙️ Coaching with Sean: https://tinyurl.com/5669kjnm

🎯 Coaching with Howie: https://tinyurl.com/yty9n5np

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