Are you struggling with codependent behaviors between your partner and their ex, especially when it affects your blended family? In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David tackle a listener’s question about how to handle situations where her partner's ex relies on him for trivial tasks related to the kids. Discover practical tips on communicating concerns with your partner using the proven “FBI statement” method, which focuses on sharing feelings, naming behaviors, and clarifying the impact on your relationship. Lori and David also explore the difference between insecurity and legitimate boundaries, offering actionable solutions for common co-parenting frustrations. Don’t miss their insights on navigating jealousy, setting healthy boundaries, and how resources like the Nacho Kids Academy and one-on-one coaching can transform your blended family experience.

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Welcome to another episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast! Today, Lori and David are joined by returning guests Crystal and Mike, who open up about blending their family over the past nine years. With two teens of totally opposite temperaments, Crystal and Mike share their experiences juggling an ambitious daughter and an unmotivated son, while trying to balance structure, independence, and support.

They discuss the evolution of “nachoing” as stepparents, how they manage the messier parts of teenage life, and the ongoing challenges of co-parenting across two very different households. Crystal and Mike’s story is funny, real, and packed with lessons for any blended family.

If you’re navigating the ups and downs of raising stepkids, especially during the teen years, this episode delivers wisdom, laughs, and reassurance that you’re not alone. Let’s jump in!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Parenting Challenges with Teenagers

• Nacho Parenting Experience

• Household Rules and Responsibilities

• Step-Parent and Stepchild Relationships
  
  

Takeaway:
Blending a family isn’t a one-time challenge; it’s an ongoing journey that requires flexibility, patience, and a good sense of humor as kids grow and life changes.

Resources Mentioned:

• NachoKids.com

• NachoKidsAcademy.com
  
  

Nacho Parenting Testimonial:

“I used to walk on eggshells. Now I walk in peace. Thanks Nacho Kids!!” ~ A.N., Charlotte, NC, USA

Listen now and be reminded that life is good when you Nacho!

Explore the complexities of blending families, including navigating different parenting styles, sibling rivalry vs. bullying, and the challenge of being fair with both biological and stepchildren.

Lori & David share practical advice on empowering kids to handle conflicts, the realities of “fairness” in stepfamily life, and why adult behavior matters just as much as the kids’.

Tune in for relatable stories, honest reflections, and tools to help your own blend thrive!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Biases and Parental Perception
• "Tit for Tat" Dynamics and Parental Stalemates
• Exploring Resentment & Underlying Issues
• The Reality of Fairness in Blended Families

Takeaway:

Being 100% "fair" between biological and stepchildren is extremely difficult, if not impossible, given the natural biases and different relationships.

Resources Mentioned

• NachoKids.com
• NachoKidsAcademy.com

Nacho Parenting Testimonial:

“I now understand what Lori means when she says she Nachos Walmart! I’m Nachoing so much!! Life is Great!l.” ~ R.K., MI