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  • Get Married

  • Why Americans Must Defy the Elites, Forge Strong Families, and Save Civilization
  • By: Brad Wilcox
  • Narrated by: Mark Deakins
  • Length: 9 hrs and 15 mins
  • 5.0 out of 5 stars (3 ratings)

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A Next Big Idea Club Must-Read

University of Virginia sociologist Brad Wilcox explains how our ruling class publicly disparages marriage—the institution most likely to deliver prosperity and happiness to ordinary Americans—while privately embracing it.

America is in crisis. Happiness is falling, loneliness and despair are rising, too many schools are riddled by fights and failure, crime is unacceptably high, and the American Dream is out of reach for millions. The problems are visible to us all, but virtually no one is talking about the solution that matters most: Marriage.

New research by University of Virginia sociologist Brad Wilcox shows that Americans who get married and have children today are leading happier and more prosperous lives, on average, than men and women who are single and childless. In fact, nothing predicts happiness in life better than a good marriage—not even a hefty bank account or a great career. And kids and communities—not to mention our civilization as a whole—are much more likely to flourish when the state of our unions is strong, according to Wilcox, who directs the National Marriage Project at U.Va.

But our country is in crisis because record numbers of Americans are not succeeding at getting or staying married. In this hard-hitting book, Wilcox reveals the anti-family messages and policies that have weakened marriage coming out of Hollywood, Washington, the media, academia, and corporate America.

The good news, however, is that millions of Americans are succeeding at marriage. Dr. Wilcox spotlights four groups—Asian, conservative, religious, and college-educated Americans—who are building strong and stable marriages by defying the me-first messages of our elites in favor of a family-first way of life.

This is a book for anyone who wants to understand why, even as fewer men and women tie the knot, America’s most fundamental institution matters more than ever for our civilization. And for men and women looking to forge strong, stable, and happy unions for themselves and their children, Get Married reveals the road forward.

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The new ‘Case for Marriage’

Its over 20 years since Linda Waite and Maggie Gallagher published their book ‘The Case for Marriage’. ‘Get married’ is the book that brings it all up to date. The combination of Brad’s easy writing style and excellent narration makes this a pleasure to listen to. He weaves in real life stories with the hard data on what people actually think and how people actually behave. The truth is that marriage is the bedrock of society and we fail to tend it at our peril. The knock-on effects of a trend away from marriage can be seen in all areas of society. The most obvious is the increase in family breakdown, not due to divorce, but to the collapse of families who never marry. Brad is a top sociologist. So his findings are sprinkled with comments that this and that takes into account things like age and income and education that might otherwise skew outcomes. That’s a very helpful defence against those who think it’s all down to those who ‘select’ into marriage. Selection is real but there’s still a marriage effect on top. This is what a lot of social science and policy makers have failed to acknowledge. I still think there’s a great story to be written about why precisely the act of marriage can change people for the better. What is the underlying causal mechanism that marriage does to people? Brad is great on how couples work together better when they enter the world of marriage. But I think there’s a why story still waiting. Overall I think this is a great work. I’ve listened to the audio and also read the book. Both are terrific and I will undoubtedly dive in again. This is a great resource. Bravo.

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The most pressing issue in society

In a post fact age, you might argue, what’s the point? This book tells you, and encourages you to get involved, not just for your own sake but for the sake of our very civilisation. Marriage is at the heart of the culture war, and marriage is the solution. 

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