• Parliament Visit
    Dec 13 2024

    In this episode, Emily Sin interviews co-host Mistress Victoria about her recent trip to UK Parliament in London. Invited by the English Collective of Prostitutes, Mistress Victoria spoke as part of their powerful report *Proceed Without Caution*, which examines the impact of police and law enforcement on sex workers' lives.

    Tune in as she shares her friend's story and opens up about her own experiences. A candid and thought-provoking conversation you won’t want to miss.

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    31 mins
  • E26: Preparation Pegging part 2
    Dec 6 2024

    In this week’s episode of Behind the Paddle, Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin dive deep into the art of preparation—body and mind—for pegging. From exploring the role of poppers in relaxation to unpacking the historical stigma surrounding buggery, they address the hang-ups that can accompany this intimate act. They also tackle important health concerns like hemorrhoids and anal fissures, offering advice on how to handle them safely. Wrapping up, the duo shares insights on how to navigate honest communication and negotiation before taking the plunge. A candid and informative conversation you don’t want to miss!

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    51 mins
  • E25: Preparation Pegging
    Nov 29 2024

    In this week’s episode, Behind the Paddle dives into the practical and essential steps for preparing your body for pegging. Hosts Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin share their expertise on topics like enemas, douching, diet considerations, warming up the area, and anal training. Whether you're a curious beginner or a seasoned explorer, this candid and educational conversation is packed with tips to ensure comfort, safety, and enjoyment. Tune in for an open and empowering discussion that embraces pleasure and confidence.

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    48 mins
  • E24: Technology, Kink and Sex Work Part 2
    Nov 22 2024

    In this two-parter, Behind the paddle dives deep into the intersection of technology and the world of kink, sex and sex work. Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin unravel the intriguing advancements shaping intimate experiences today.

    Virtual realms and AI innovations, from the rise of hentai vtubers and AI Dommes to the sensual allure of chatbots like Replika. They also explore second life's infamous slave island, where fantasy meets digital freedom with real life stakes.

    Shifting gears to tech-driven physical connections, including Lovense toys, wireless-controlled chastity devices, camming gadgets, and gaming-integrated butt plugs. The duo also examines the ethics and future of sex doll brothels and the evolving landscape of tech-fueled intimacy.

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    55 mins
  • E23: Technology, Kink and Sex Work Part 1
    Nov 15 2024

    In this two-parter, Behind the paddle dives deep into the intersection of technology and the world of kink, sex and sex work. Porcelain Victoria and Emily Sin unravel the intriguing advancements shaping intimate experiences today.

    Virtual realms and AI innovations, from the rise of hentai vtubers and AI Dommes to the sensual allure of chatbots like Replika. They also explore second life's infamous slave island, where fantasy meets digital freedom with real life stakes.

    Shifting gears to tech-driven physical connections, including Lovense toys, wireless-controlled chastity devices, camming gadgets, and gaming-integrated butt plugs. The duo also examines the ethics and future of sex doll brothels and the evolving landscape of tech-fueled intimacy.

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    44 mins
  • E22: Femdom ball and Gynarchy Gathering
    Nov 8 2024

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    In this episode of *Behind the Paddle*, host Porcelain Victoria shares her recent experience at the highly anticipated Femdom Ball, an exclusive event organized by Madame Caramel. This three-part gathering included a meet and greet with fellow mistresses, an elegant high tea, and, of course, the main event—the Femdom Ball. Porcelain Victoria gives us a glimpse into the luxurious, empowering, and unforgettable atmosphere of the evening.

    Host Victoria then asks Emily about attending Gynarchy Gathering, a new Femdom event curated by Mistress Tess in Sandy, Bedfordshire. Listen in as they explore the unique dynamics, highlights, and their personal experiences from these remarkable events in the Femdom community.

    This isn’t sponsored we just absolutely loved these events!

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    50 mins
  • E21: First Lesbian Marriage UK
    Nov 1 2024

    In this episode we will be continuing the story of Gentleman Jack, where we uncover the captivating life of Anne Lister and her trailblazing romance with Ann Walker, celebrated as the first recorded lesbian marriage in the UK. Through Anne's detailed diaries, we follow the couple’s passionate journey, from their secret marriage vows to their daring travels across Europe, all the way to Anne’s untimely death. This episode offers an intimate glimpse into their shared life, the challenges they faced, and the adventurous spirit that made Anne a revolutionary figure in LGBTQ+ history.

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    27 mins
  • E20: Slut-o-ween
    Oct 25 2024

    In this episode, we dive into the world of Halloween costumes, slut-shaming, and the evolution of gender norms around dressing up. We'll unpack the origins of the “sexy costume” as a queer culture celebration, explore Halloween’s roots and the influence of gender stereotypes, and examine the fortune-telling rituals of 1800s Scotland and Ireland when busy women sought glimpses of their future husbands. Join us as we challenge assumptions, celebrate self-expression, and uncover the fascinating history that shapes our modern Halloween traditions.

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    1 hr and 2 mins