Welcome to another enlightening episode of the "Don't Pick The Scab" podcast, where we help men over 40 transform post-divorce scars into superpowers. Today, we're diving deep into the art of turning sexual energy into life abundance with our special guest, Matt. Now, Matt isn't just any coach; he's a maestro in the realm of sexual energy transformation, having guided over 80,000 men to find their groove beyond the bedroom. Imagine a world where your sexual drive isn't just for procreation but for creating a life that feels like your own personal Nirvana. That's right, Matt's here to spill the beans—or maybe not spill them at all, depending on your retention schedule! He's been with his partner for nearly 40 years, proving that love can be stronger than a well-brewed cup of morning coffee and more enduring than a Wi-Fi connection during a thunderstorm. Join us as Matt shares how to harness that primal energy to conquer anxiety, smash through those societal stigmas, and build trust and intimacy—all while keeping a sense of humor. And remember, it's not about the destination; it's about enjoying the ride—literally and figuratively. So buckle up, because this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining!

Important points:

1. Transform sexual energy into life abundance post-divorce.

2. Avoid porn to maintain strong sexual energy.

3. Build oxytocin before engaging in sexual activities.

4. Embrace nonverbal communication over excessive talking about sex.

5. Approach women in person, not through dating apps.

6. Schedule ejaculations to build and maintain sexual energy.

7. Join men's groups for support and shared experiences.

8. Be a "shock absorber" in relationships, not reactive.

9. Frequent sex is crucial for a healthy relationship.

10. Expect negative results initially when approaching women.
    

Matt Cook’s Main Website:

https://www.healthyto120.com

Matt’s Medical Discoveries:

https://www.dailymedicaldiscoveries.com/

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In episode 57 of the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast," host David talks with guest Kevin Anthony, a certified sexologist and relationship coach, about the challenges men over 40 face post-divorce. Kevin emphasizes the importance of self-confidence, navigating new dating technologies, and understanding modern relationship dynamics. He discusses common issues such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, often rooted in psychological factors. Kevin advises men to embrace their masculinity while being caring and communicative while stressing awareness and action to break negative patterns in relationships for healthier futures. Even if you’re not having a sexual relationship yet, please listen to this podcast!!

10 Main Takeaways:

1. Rebuilding Self-Confidence: Regaining confidence is crucial for men post-divorce to re-enter the dating scene.

2. Adapting to Modern Dating: Men need to learn new dating technologies and protocols.

3. Physical and Psychological Challenges: Common issues include erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, often more psychological than physical.

4. Importance of Foreplay: Foreplay is vital for sexual satisfaction, particularly for women.

5. Healthy Masculinity: Embracing classical masculine traits while being compassionate and communicative is key.

6. Avoiding Old Patterns: Awareness and action are necessary to avoid repeating negative relationship patterns.

7. Open Communication: Honest communication about sexual histories and needs can enhance relationships.

8. Technology in Sexual Health: Emerging technologies are aiding in diagnosing and treating sexual health issues.

9. Friends with Benefits Dynamics: These relationships often lead to attachment, particularly for women.

10. Self-Acceptance and Growth: Men should focus on personal growth and self-acceptance before seeking new relationships.

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In this episode, David and Chantel Landreville discuss the importance of love skills and self-awareness in navigating relationships, especially during and after a divorce. They explore how to create safe spaces for emotional healing, the dynamics of co-parenting, and the significance of self-care and humility in personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to seek support and be truthful with themselves as they recover from divorce and build new relationships.

Takeaways:

Everything I teach applies to any relationship.

You need to be able to define what you want.

Self-awareness starts with asking yourself why.

It's okay to let yourself feel these feelings.

Get support instead of going through it alone.

You have to take ownership in it.

Safety cannot come from alone; it's an environment.

Self-care is about finding things that make you happy.

Humility is such a powerful quality.

Find your words and do that exercise.

Sound Bites:

"Everything I teach is applicable to any relationship."

"You need to be able to define what you want."

"It's okay to let yourself feel these feelings."

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