• Rebuilding Confidence After a Life Changing Event That Leaves You Overwhelmed and Feeling Helpless EP86
    Jun 24 2025

    Have you experienced a life changing event? An event that left you feeling overwhelmed, helpless, and less confident in your abilities to handle life?

    You are not alone.

    Listen in to get a few easy pointers for navigating big events like divorce, child loss, health crisis, becoming a caretaker, losing a home or job, or raising a child with a disability or disease. Each of these BIG life altering events or circumstances can leave you feeling unable to continue.

    You might be asking questions like:

    • Why me?
    • I can't handle this.
    • I am not qualified for this.
    • How do I make it through today.
    • I can't do this.

    Life is uncertain and in different seasons we are left without a clear direction. When you don't have a clear direction and you want to crawl in bed and cry. Give yourself permission to take each day slowly and focus on getting small things done. Each time you finish even the smallest task your confidence will grow.

    Be patient, listen to this episode a few times and take note. I have been there many times and I love sharing what has helped me come out more confident, self reliant, and filled with joy. By the way, you can feel joy even in the storm!

    You got this!

    If you or someone you know is having a mental health crisis please reach out to QPR for suicide support and Vet support. 1-800-273-8255or 1-800-784-2433.

    Vets4Warriors: 1 - 800-828-8255

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    It’s time to take the first step towards a fulfilling and joyful life. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful! Imagine having deeper connections, feeling less anxiety and overwhelm, gaining clarity, and fully trusting yourself. Picture yourself not just surviving but truly thriving.

    I am here with you every step of the way!

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    Heather

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    16 mins
  • Mindset Tricks to Help Build Your Confidence and Create a Happier and Healthier Life - EP85
    Jun 17 2025

    When we think of having a better mindset we might think in terms of always being positive. There is a little more to a growth mindset and deciding if you need a mindset reset is important.

    First step to improving your mindset and gaining more confidence is to become aware of what your current thoughts and beliefs are. Sometimes these are holding you back. We have so many thoughts a day and we don't think about what we think about.

    If mindset was simply being able to write down affirmations on a post it, affixing it to your bathroom mirror, and reading it over and over while brushing your teeth we would all be rich, famous, and in the best health of our lives. It's not that simple.

    You have to believe what you are telling yourself. The mindset you adopt has to be believable to you. If you want better relationships, a higher paying job, or a fantastically fit body it requires a mindset of success.

    A mindset shift happens when you take the time to identify what mindset you want. At times, it will take changing the way you interact with the world. If you complain it will require you to rewire your brain to stop complaining as much. If you think life is always a struggle it will require you imagine a world that isn't a struggle.

    Mindset requires curiosity and you may need to enlist some help along the way. Listen to this episode for some mindset tricks, tips, and shifts that will help you live a life happier and healthier than ever.

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    It’s time to take the first step towards a fulfilling and joyful life. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful! Imagine having deeper connections, feeling less anxiety and overwhelm, gaining clarity, and fully trusting yourself. Picture yourself not just surviving but truly thriving.

    I am here with you every step of the way!

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    18 mins
  • The Top 3 Reasons to Let Go of Trying to Be Perfect - EP84
    Jun 10 2025

    Wanting to be perfect on the surface feels justified. It feels like a great thing to strive for perfection. What if there is another side to the story?

    In this episode we explore how perfectionism may be hindering your progress, keeping you from joy, and preventing you from making decisions in an efficient manner. When we overthink, research without ultimately making decisions, and constantly use a false or fake reality to create our definition of perfect things can get way out of control.

    There are compelling reasons it's productive and recommended to let go of perfection and embrace being more aware of how perfectionism is impacting your life.

    What is it costing you? Are you sacrificing relationships, time, money, or your sanity? It pays to take some time to think over the areas of your life that you may have unrealistic expectations of yourself and others.

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    23 mins
  • What's Holding You Back? EP83
    Jun 3 2025

    There's this little voice in our heads that says things like;

    • you aren't good enough?
    • who are you to want to do that?
    • what's make you qualified to be here?
    • who do you think you are?"

    Have you ever had thoughts like this? You are certainly not alone!

    I watched a tennis match lately that was a bold example of someone imploding due to their self doubt and critical mental chatter. It's easy to let this happen. It happens more often than we know.

    If we want to break free of the doubts and insecurities we have about our abilities and capabilities we have to do some work. Get really curious about why and what we think. What is preventing us from moving forward?

    Is your brain manipulating your dreams? Is is keeping you from working toward a big dream you have to lose weight, leave a relationship, or apply for a better job.

    Have you spent the time to really ponder what's holding you back? The most empowering thing to do is to take your thoughts captive and work on the doubts, insecurities, resistance, and triggers that are preventing you from being your best you!

    It makes life so much easier, more peaceful, and joyful when you are aware of what's tripping you up and keeping you from reaching your goals, being your best you, and going for your dreams. Don't let your current comfort prevent your future accomplishments.

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    14 mins
  • How to Use Being Uncomfortable to Skyrocket Your Confidence - EP82
    May 27 2025

    Comfort is one of the worst addictions we can have. Doing the same things over and over makes us complacent. It keeps us from being tested or stretching ourselves.

    How does being uncomfortable help us become stronger, better versions of ourselves?

    This episode is a glimpse into how you can use being uncomfortable to increase your confidence, become more resilient, and be a better version of you.

    Do you want to a better relationship? Have you been wishing for a higher paying job? Has you goal been to become more fit or lose weight?

    All of these things depend on one thing. You ability to endure and choose being uncomfortable.

    You can't have a fantastic relationship without challenging yourself to be more present and give more to the person you want to have a better relationship with.

    If you want a better job, you must be willing to learn new skills and elevate your ability to do the new job.

    When you want to loose weight or become more fit, you have to decide you will make better choices that are very often uncomfortable. Less cake, cookie, and sugar filled coffee and more greens. Maybe you have to park your car further away so you walk more. You might even have to walk to the farmers market instead of drive!

    When you choose to be uncomfortable for future gain you will become a more confident version of yourself. You realize how much more you are capable of and you will become better and better at doing what other people aren't willing to do.

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    Heathe

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    11 mins
  • Increase Your Confidence Immediately By Using This One Process - EP81
    May 20 2025

    No one talks about how much it matters to get things done you say you are going to get done. When we delay, avoid, or choose to leave things undone it call slowly kill our confidence. What's worse is how it can impact how much confidence others have in us.

    Today's episode I share one simple process I use when I am feeling a little off my confidence game. How I go about raising my confidence quickly and at the same time get things done.

    Think about something you have wanted to do for a long time but you keep putting it off. How much mental and physical energy is it taking up simply because you haven't done it? Do you realize your brain can invent beliefs based on what you are NOT doing as much as what you ARE doing? When you don't do what you say you are going to do or what you want to do, you brain begins to believe you are a person who isn't reliable.

    Over time, you can build a lack of trust in yourself. That's not productive for your self worth or personal belief systems.

    One really quick way to bring up your confidence is to get things done! What's not getting done? Write it down and then DO it! Do it as soon as possible and you will see and feel your confidence increase immediately. You will have a sense of accomplishment and you will raise your belief in yourself. The gap between feeling confident and feeling low self worth can literally be impacted by your to do list.

    Make your list, complete what is on your list, and see your confidence soar!

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    Invest in a Coaching Package and change your life forever!

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    XOXO,

    Heather

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    9 mins
  • Confidently Do Something You Have Never Done Before Using 5 Easy Steps - EP80
    May 13 2025

    Have you ever wanted to do something new but decided you couldn't because you had never done it? Do you let your lack of knowledge stop you from trying something BIG or NEW?

    Listen to this episode to help you use five simple steps that are proven to help you master doing new things even when you don't have the experience you think you have to have.

    1. Decide your are going to do it and write it down in an affirmative, current statement.
    2. Research what it takes to make it happen. Make your best guess on skills, resources, and connections it will take.
    3. Review and brainstorm to identify mentors, courses, skill building you will need to do it.
    4. Organize your plan based on actions you must take to make it happen and add to your calendar.
    5. Set yourself up for success by addressing your D.I.R.T. (Doubts, Insecurities, Resistance, and Triggers) ahead of time.

    You can do anything you put your mind to. Most of our lives is simply rehearsal for something coming in our future. Think about all your firsts. The first time you walked, talked, drove, got a job, held someone's hand, feel in love, or interviewed. What do all of them have in common? They were all something you had never done before until one specific moment in time. All those moments build on one another.

    What do you want to do that you have never done before? Use the 5 steps above and make it happen!

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    15 mins
  • Embrace Your Imperfections: The Surprising Path to Unshakable Confidence - EP79
    May 6 2025

    Imagine a world where everyone speaks the same, looks the same, enjoys the same things, and does the same things. Does that sound fun?

    This imaginary place is boring, drab, and that world would be mundane. When you catch yourself wishing or wanting to be like everyone else or not wanting to be yourself due to your imperfections, pull up this episode.

    In this episode, I am talking about Embracing your imperfections to increase your confidence. Often, we use our imperfections against ourselves. We can believe lies that we are somehow less than due to the things that make us different or imperfect about us.

    • Ultimately your flaws and imperfections make you unique and can help you find your tribe.
    • When you accept yourself as you are with all your imperfections, you lead with more curiosity and become less critical of yourself and others.
    • Imperfections can help you find your vibe.

    You get to choose how you use your imperfections and differences in life. Are you going to let them crush your confidence or use them as a tool, a guide to become more confident? What if you used them to find your best supporters and become the best version of yourself. Only you can decide what you will do. What will you do?

    Email me at heather@hcedwardscoaching.com.

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    13 mins