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  • The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship

  • By: Natalie Lue
  • Narrated by: Lucy Price-Lewis
  • Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (30 ratings)

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The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship

By: Natalie Lue
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Summary

Most people, if asked, would deny that they'd ever had fantasy relationships, as they are associated with pretending to be with someone or in something that's nonexistent. However, it's time for you to change what you think you know.

In this modern age of texts, email, Facebook, online dating, and casual relationships, it's never been so easy to find yourself in a crumb-filled fantasy relationship. An increasing number of people are satisfied with sprinklings of attention and interaction which they use to give themselves the illusion of being loved, cared for, and in control because they get to avoid commitment, intimacy, and full-on rejection.

The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship is for every woman who's been caught short by her overactive imagination and her great expectations. Struggled to get over a relationship that didn't truly exist? Don't understand how you wound up spending years with someone you hardly saw? Keep letting your assumptions and projections run away with you?

It's time to come back down to earth and face reality so you can take action in your present, face your real future, and get happy.

Acting as a companion guide to Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, the no-holds-barred Bible for understanding excuse-filled, commitment-dodging, unavailable men and the women that they fall back on for an ego stroke, shag, and a shoulder to lean on, I wanted to introduce a new role due to the sheer number of emails and comments I receive from women who actually believe that the crumbs they're receiving, particularly via cheap talk, grand promises, texts, email, and Facebook are relationships or love.

The Dreamer and the Fantasy Relationship explains how fantasy relationships work, why they're so attractive, and the types of fantasy relationship and Mr. Unavailable that you're likely to be involved with and provides practical tips and tools for breaking the habit and tackling issues such as rejection avoidance and fear of abandonment, criticism, and conflict.

Delivered with a no-fluff dose of reality and plenty of humour, I want to empower you to let go of the illusions so you can be available for an available relationship in the real world.

©2013 Natalie Lue (P)2015 Audible. Ltd
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Amazing advice

Think all Natalie Lue books are fab but this one so helpful and prevalent to my current situation. Thank you

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For women who need to move on NOW

Well told, great reader. Thoroughly helpful for making the decision, with what/why, to get out of relationships that are not real. Some of us have been unwittingly accepting crumbs. Leave and have a fabulous life after understanding what was going wrong. I wish I’d found this years ago 😃

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Narration is robotic and too fast

There are good arguments in this book but they are repeated over and over again. It would benefit from a good editing job to make it more succinct and to the point.
The narration is terrible. Very robotic and much too fast.

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