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The Mental Load Diaries

How I learned to juggle life, love and the neverending to-do list

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The Mental Load Diaries

By: Cat Sims
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‘A reassuring manifesto on the role of women today’ - Dawn O’Porter

‘This book - and Cat Sims generally - helps me to breathe a bit easier. My shoulders drop, my jaw relaxes, and I know everything is going to be OK.’ - Bryony Gordon


The mental load isn’t just about doing all the stuff. The mental load is constantly thinking about having to do all the stuff, and then, when you forget to do some of the stuff, the mental load is also about beating yourself up about that, while still trying to keep in mind all the other stuff you’ve got to do.

The mental load. Emotional labour. The invisible burden – whatever you call it, every woman is familiar with the neverending list of things to do that exists in their head. This noise that plays on a constant loop is impacting the mental health of women everywhere.

Writer, content creator, podcaster, wife and mum Cat Sims describes the devastating impact the mental load had on her own happiness, mental health and marriage. After having children, the unequal division of responsibility in her household came into stark relief. Her desperate efforts to be the perfect wife and mother left her mentally, emotionally and physically defeated – ultimately driving her to addiction and a crisis point in her marriage.

With eye-opening honesty and her trademark dry humour, Cat tells the story of her relationship with the mental load and, in turn, offers a blunt but ultimately hopeful appraisal of society and women’s experience of it.

This necessary book will incite honest conversation, make you feel less alone and give you the confidence to invite your loved ones to share the mental load.©2025 Cat Sims (P)2025 Simon & Schuster UK
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Just finished mental load diaries, absolutely fantastic. I thoroughly enjoyed it and recognised more of what I'm doing and more of what I'm doing wrong than I thought.
For all the women (& unfortunately it is the majority of women) who’ve struggled to name the way they are feeling - then this is the book for you.
Loved the fact it wasn’t a male bashing in disguise- Cat, you’ve smashed this. Already bought 2 physical copies for friends ❤️

Funny, Thought Provoking & Inspiring

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Cat takes you by the hand and allows you into her home via this book. It is a wonderful insight into what works for her an her family to keep on top of the day to day chaos modern life demands. As a bonus there are a few funny stories thrown in for good measure.

Honest and insightful

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