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The Let Them Theory

A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

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The Let Them Theory

By: Mel Robbins
Narrated by: Mel Robbins
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#1 New York Times Bestseller

#1 Sunday Times Bestseller

#1 Amazon Bestseller

#1 Audible Bestseller

A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.

In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.

Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. As you listen, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.

Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.

Learn how to:

  • Stop wasting energy on things you can't control
  • Stop comparing yourself to other people
  • Break free from fear and self-doubt
  • Release the grip of people's expectations
  • Build the best friendships of your life
  • Create the love you deserve
  • Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
  • Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
  • Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment
    ...and so much more.

The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.

©2024 Mel Robbins (P)2024 Audible, Inc.
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This book will change your life. Truthfully I’ve heard it all before but the way Mel puts it together makes it so clear and impactful. This audio book is not a long podcast episode. This is a real deep lesson on self worth and clear steps to live a happy beautiful life. I adore you Mel and will be thanking you in my heart always. xxx

My life is changed

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The best self help book ever, for someone like myself who over thinks and second guesses everything it’s the top listen. I’m on my second listen and also have the book! Thanks Mel you superstar

We all need this book in our lives

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Listening to Let Them has truly been a transformative experience for me. In my line of work, I interact with clients regularly, and their feedback—especially the personal kind—left me anxious and unsure of myself. It became a vicious cycle, where my anxiety led to more negative feedback. But since diving into this book, I’ve found my confidence again. I’ve learned the power of being true to myself, striving to be my best, and simply allowing others to do what they need without letting it weigh on me.

It hasn’t just changed my professional life but also impacted my personal life. I deeply care about my friends and family, but I used to give unsolicited advice, trying to help in ways that probably weren’t needed. Now, I’ve learned to step back, listen, and let adults be adults. It’s not always easy, but the peace I’ve gained is worth it. I’m spending less time worrying about others’ opinions and more time focusing on being productive and present.

This book has been such a gift, and I know I’ll revisit it again to keep growing. If you’re looking for inspiration to let go of what’s beyond your control and embrace your best self, I highly recommend it.

Let Them is a super power.

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This book is so interesting and mega supportive… made me reflect and reevaluate my own thoughts and behaviour and has given me the tools to apply in order to move forward in my own right and stand in my own truth and regain my own power … thank you Mel

Great theory

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Good content. Well narrated (reminded me of a long episode of her podcast). No-fuss hard truths and sensible advice

Pragmatic and actionable

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This is a very well timed book for me. I am so grateful for this book Mel. Let them, Let me is simple and powerful. No frills, no complex philosophies.
Thank you!

Thank you Mel

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This is one of those books you HAVE to buy! I will gift this to my children as I wish I had this book when I was in my 20’s gosh even when i was 18 ! The peace you will find in yourself and life choices with the knowledge gained in this book is life changing

Brilliant book and narration

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A good theory to live life by. There is clarification that it is not simply letting anyone and everyone get away with doing whatever they want that impacts your life. I did think the 30 minutes about relationships was padding and didn't need to be there.

Overall I think worth listening to

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Thank you so much much Mel and Co. I listened to the very very end! 🤣 And I never do that! What can I say?! Incredible! Beautiful! Emotional rollercoaster (but a fun one). I am using the Let Them/Me Theory as I type, just by being me! Your book truly resonated with me, and I appreciate all the hard work, research, and pure love. I won’t lie, when you teared up I teared up with you. I can’t recommend the book enough. All I suggest to readers/listeners is to remain open minded throughout, and try not to trivialise the simplicity of the message. A lot of work has gone into navigating the human condition to reach the most people. A humble experience. 🧡

A warm hug

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liked it all, Mel explains the let them theory really well,covering everything that I was having issues with.

absolutely amazing

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