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The Let Them Theory

A Life-Changing Tool That Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

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The Let Them Theory

By: Mel Robbins
Narrated by: Mel Robbins
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#1 New York Times Bestseller

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A Life-Changing Tool Millions of People Can’t Stop Talking About

What if the key to happiness, success, and love was as simple as two words?

If you've ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or frustrated with where you are, the problem isn't you. The problem is the power you give to other people. Two simple words—Let Them—will set you free. Free from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. Free from the exhausting cycle of trying to manage everything and everyone around you. The Let Them Theory puts the power to create a life you love back in your hands—and this book will show you exactly how to do it.

In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.

Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. As you listen, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.

Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.

Learn how to:

  • Stop wasting energy on things you can't control
  • Stop comparing yourself to other people
  • Break free from fear and self-doubt
  • Release the grip of people's expectations
  • Build the best friendships of your life
  • Create the love you deserve
  • Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence
  • Build resilience against everyday stressors and distractions
  • Define your own path to success, joy, and fulfillment
    ...and so much more.

The Let Them Theory will forever change the way you think about relationships, control, and personal power. Whether you want to advance your career, motivate others to change, take creative risks, find deeper connections, build better habits, start a new chapter, or simply create more happiness in your life and relationships, this book gives you the mindset and tools to unlock your full potential.

Order your copy of The Let Them Theory now and discover how much power you truly have. It all begins with two simple words.

©2024 Mel Robbins (P)2024 Audible, Inc.
Editors Select Personal Development Personal Success Inspiring Thought-Provoking Happiness

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Like the sun coming out

This book is fabulous in every way. The anecdotes which are so relatable and come from the heart, the narration by the author which is just the best and the learnings from research and realisations are so thought-provoking. You can’t read this and NOT want to put it into practice. It will change not only your life, but the life of those who have to live with you and who choose to spend time with you. Tell everyone else to read it to - imagine how much better this world would be if everyone read this book!

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Mel Robbins does it again 😁

Love Mel and her methods. Another great book packed with advice and helpful methods to aid mental wellbeing. Helping us to navigate life difficulites. xx

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Everyone needs this book in their life

Wow! An amazing book, it sets out plainly and simply (and sometimes painfully directly) how you can use the Let Them Theory to improve your life and in my case, key mistakes you've been making up until now. Did you know about 95% of adults are emotionally just 8 year olds in big bodies? Me neither, but once it's explained it makes sense, and then you realise through the examples given, you're one of those 95%. Ooops, no worries, you'll learn how to help yourself mature, as well as how to Let other people be themselves while Letting yourself look after yourself in a way that's compassionate and kind but doesn't come at your expense or anyone else's. Read/Listen to this book. It's eye opening, and possibly life changing.

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so good

it's just so good I can't put it into words, I want to let you enjoy it. Let me tell you though that this will help you in so many different facets of your life.

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Let them - Let me!

This has been absolutely transformational for me. A constant people pleaser who always worries about what other people think….it’s reframed my perspective on relationships and also highlighted that I’m trying to control things I simply can’t. So I release myself and “let them” is my new mantra! I’m going to share this with everyone I know. A must read. Thank you Mel for being so gracious with your own stories and experiences…and for the Let them theory!

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Clear concise language

Mel did it again…. I will now be letting everyone do their thing. I will then do mine and life will just be. No turning myself in knots to please or stamping my feet to be heard.

I’m happy Mel has found her place in the world with her books and podcasts. A joy to listen to. Advice that’s too good to ignore to obvious not to remember, like a pep talk from your best friend. Love the book,

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So simple

This book is so simple but so powerful! I really enjoyed it. A lot Would recommend definitely

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Easy to follow - another great book from Mel

Another great book from Mel Robbins. A true story teller, relatable, backed by experts. Easy to follow. I'll be coming back to this one again.

Thank you Mel and thank you Saywer

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A really inspiring listen

There’s genuinely a lot of good life advice in here that goes beyond common sense and gets to the heart of how to be an emotionally mature adult.

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The life manual I needed when I was young ❤️

This was incredible!!! Wish I had this book years earlier! I love how Mel helps you to navigate difficult situations and take back your power

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