
What Remains?
"Life, Death and the Human Art of Undertaking"
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Narrated by:
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Rupert Callender
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By:
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Rupert Callender
About this listen
When he became an undertaker, Rupert Callender undertook to deal with the dead for the sake of the living. This book is his brilliant, unforgettable story—the life and work of the world’s first punk undertaker—but it's also about ordinary, everyday humanity and our capacity to face death with courage and compassion, to say goodbye to the people we love in our own way.
In becoming the world’s first “punk undertaker” and establishing the Green Funeral Company in Devon, UK, Ru Callender and his partner Claire challenged the stilted, structured world of the funeral industry—fusing what he had learned from his own deeply personal experiences with death with the surprising and profound answers and raw emotion he discovered in rave culture and ritual magick.
From his unresolved grief for his parents and his cultural ancestors to political and religious non-conformists, social outlaws, experimental pioneers, and acid-house culture, Ru Callender has taken to a “DIY” ethos to help people navigate grief. He has carried coffins across windswept beaches, sat in pubs with caskets on beer-stained tables, helped children fire flaming arrows into their father’s funeral pyre, turned occult rituals into performance art, and, with the band members of KLF, is building the People’s Pyramid of bony bricks in Liverpool.
What Remains? is a profound, deeply moving, and politically charged book that will change the way listeners think about life, death, and the all-important end-of-life experience.
©2022 Rupert Callender (P)2022 Dreamscape Media, LLCHonest and heartfelt, fascinating
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This moment, now, this is the moment between the click and the bang.
You are already dead.
We are already dead
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A brilliant book that needed to be written.
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Wow.
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The narrator needs to pick up the pace a bit, not the best.
Thought provoking
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Vital, moving, brilliant.
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Powerful and honest
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An exquisitely crafted view of grief and undertaking
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The book is read by the author himself, who I found unlikeable, appears bitter for his upbringing (which sounds like it was one of immense privilege) & is insulting of people who don’t agree with his ideas (“reptile brained” being one phrase that springs to mind).
I like to read books about death, but this was less about death & more about the author’s apparent attempt to single handedly overhaul the funeral industry into something more radical. I found the talk of magic, spells (which included meditation to the point of orgasm) & rituals extremely strange.
I also cannot support someone who advocates the use of illegal drugs (MDMA) for “healing” & suggests families should use them together around the bed of a dying relative.
It’s rare for me to give a critical review of a book in this way but I found this book disturbing on so many levels. I have given it 2 stars merely because I did find the stories of some of the people in his care (of which he mentioned few) quite emotional.
Disturbing
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