Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the pervasive 'all or nothing' mentality that affects our approach to decluttering and organisation. She shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies to help listeners break down overwhelming tasks into manageable steps, emphasising the importance of taking small actions rather than waiting for the perfect moment. Heather also addresses the challenges posed by perfectionism and ADHD, encouraging listeners to focus on initial thoughts and actions to avoid getting stuck in a cycle of inaction.

Takeaways

• The all or nothing mentality can hinder progress.
• Breaking tasks into smaller steps makes them more manageable.
• Waiting for the perfect moment often leads to inaction.
• Small actions can lead to significant changes over time.
• Perfectionism can create overwhelming expectations.
• It's important to recognise when you're stuck in all or nothing thinking.
• Taking immediate action on small tasks can prevent procrastination.
• Organising and decluttering can be done in bits, not just big projects.
• Recognising initial thoughts can help in decision-making.
• Stop the grand spiral

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to All or Nothing Thinking

02:50
The Impact of All or Nothing on Daily Tasks

06:07
Overcoming All or Nothing Mentality in Home Projects

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Feel free to email me: help@untangledbytingle.com
Please note, I may not be able to reply, but do read all emails to me and appreciate them massively.

Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses effective decluttering strategies for individuals who struggle with focus, particularly those with ADHD. She presents two main approaches: working with the tendency to flit between tasks and finding ways to lock in focus. Heather emphasises the importance of mini-declutters, using reminders, and creative techniques to maintain motivation and productivity. The episode concludes with encouragement to reward oneself for progress, no matter how small.

Takeaways

• Recognise that decluttering can take longer when flitting between tasks.
• Mini-declutters can be effective and manageable for busy individuals.
• Using dump bins in each room can simplify the decluttering process.
• Short tasks of less than five minutes can be integrated into daily routines.
• Body doubling can provide accountability and enhance focus during decluttering.
• Visual aids like timers can help maintain focus and track progress.
• Consider using enjoyable tasks to kickstart decluttering efforts.
• Locking yourself in a room (not literally!) can help minimise distractions.
• Rewarding yourself for progress is crucial for motivation.
• Creative techniques, like role-playing, can make decluttering more engaging.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Decluttering Strategies

05:52
Locking In Focus: Strategies for Better Concentration

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the psychology behind freebies and promotional items, reflecting on her childhood experiences and the excitement of receiving something for nothing. She discusses the importance of mindful consumption, emphasising that just because something is free doesn't mean it is beneficial or necessary.

Heather encourages listeners to evaluate their attachment to freebies and to consider the environmental impact of taking items they don't need. The conversation culminates in a challenge for listeners to identify and reflect on the freebies they have in their homes.

Takeaways

• The excitement of receiving freebies often stems from childhood experiences.
• Freebies can take up valuable physical and mental space.
• Just because something is free doesn't mean it's good for you.
• Mindful consumption is key when it comes to promotional items.
• It's okay to say no to freebies without feeling guilty.
• Evaluate whether you would buy the item if it weren't free.
• Consider the environmental impact of taking unnecessary items.
• Freebies can create clutter if not managed properly.
• Look past the brand connection and assess the item's actual value.
• Reflect on your emotional attachment to freebies and why you feel that way.

Chapters

00:00
The Allure of Freebies

10:58
Mindful Consumption of Promotional Items

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses how to handle items that aren't yours, whether they were left by friends or borrowed and never returned. She emphasises the importance of setting time limits for returning items, understanding their sentimental value, and ultimately letting go of guilt associated with keeping them. Heather encourages listeners to reclaim their space and not feel responsible for items that do not belong to them, providing practical tips for decluttering and moving forward in a guilt-free manner.

Takeaways

• It's important to set a time limit for returning items.
• If you can't contact the owner, assess the item's value.
• Remove the guilt associated with keeping items that aren't yours.
• It's okay to let go of items that aren't important to you.
• You are not responsible for being a permanent home for others' items.
• Life happens, and people leave things behind.
• Make contact quickly to avoid awkwardness later.
• You have permission to declutter and reclaim your space.
• Sentimental value is subjective; assess it carefully.
• Decluttering helps prevent future accumulation of others' items.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Special Offers

06:10
Letting Go of Guilt and Moving Forward


Black Friday Offers

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle shares her personal journey with clutter, exploring her childhood experiences, struggles in adulthood, and the transformative power of decluttering. She discusses the emotional connections to her belongings, the impact of mental health on her clutter, and how discovering decluttering sparked a significant change in her life. Heather emphasises the importance of creating a home that reflects one's true self and the freedom that comes with letting go of excess.

Takeaways

• Sentimentality can lead to clutter and emotional attachment.
• Childhood experiences shape our relationship with belongings.
• Decluttering is a process that requires time and effort.
• Emotional connections to items can complicate the decluttering process.
• It's important to prioritise personal feelings over societal expectations when decluttering.
• Decluttering can lead to a lighter, more fulfilling life.
• Creating a home that reflects your personality is essential.
• Neurodivergence can influence how we manage clutter and belongings.
• The journey of decluttering can be empowering and transformative.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction and Personal Background

05:12
Childhood Sentimentality and Clutter

10:26
Struggles with Clutter in Adulthood

15:34
The Turning Point

23:42
Embracing Change and Moving Forward

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

Summary

In this episode, Heather Tingle reflects on a year of decluttering insights, sharing 28 tips derived from past podcasts. The conversation covers various themes including impulse spending, the importance of decluttering before moving, managing social anxiety, decision fatigue, and effective packing strategies. Heather emphasizes the need to enjoy life and possessions, the distinction between hoarding and chronic disorganization, and the significance of creating a home that works for the individual. The episode concludes with motivation strategies for decluttering and making a home aesthetically pleasing while being functional.

Takeaways

• Impulse spending often stems from emotional triggers.
• Creating a gap between desire and purchase can reduce impulse buys.
• Decluttering before moving saves time and money.
• Social anxiety can be managed with practical strategies.
• Books should be evaluated individually, not as a collection.
• Finding space to declutter can be creative and unconventional.
• Decision fatigue can be mitigated by preparing in advance.
• Packing efficiently can enhance travel experiences.
• Hoarding is a mental health issue, distinct from disorganization.
• Children should be involved in deciding what artwork to keep.

Use code TINGLE at checkout for a 10% discount with My Little DaVinci Frames.(affiliate link)

Chapters

00:00
Celebrating a Year of Decluttering Insights

06:05
The Importance of Decluttering Before Moving

11:53
The Challenge of Decluttering Books and Cards

18:08
Managing Decision Fatigue in Decluttering

24:07
Distinguishing Hoarding from Chronic Disorganization

30:06
Finding Motivation to Declutter

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

Welcome to the 1-Year Anniversary Episode of Decluttering Untangled!
In this special milestone episode, Heather Tingle celebrates one incredible year of helping listeners untangle their homes and minds. Today, Heather shares her top 17 decluttering tips from the past year, offering a powerful recap that you can come back to anytime you need a refresher.

Whether you're a longtime listener or just tuning in, this episode is packed with actionable advice for creating a clutter-free home that truly works for you.
From mastering the art of “zoning” to navigating emotional attachments, Heather covers all the foundational principles that have resonated most with the Untangling community. Listen in to hear about strategies specifically tailored for neurodivergent minds, including the PAVES system and unique approaches to decluttering when dealing with depression, overwhelm, or simply a lack of time.

Highlights in this episode:

• The Power of Zoning: Set up specific zones in your home to make finding things easier and the start of a long term declutter plan.
• Do It Now Mentality: Small actions add up—Heather’s approach helps you make the most of every moment.
• Decision-Making Based on Emotions, Not Logic: Learn why keeping only what you truly love can transform your space.
• The PAVES System: A personalised blueprint to keep you on track, even when life feels overwhelming.
• Creating an Effective Exit Plan: Avoid the common pitfall of letting donation bags pile up by having a plan for items to leave your space.
• Managing Holiday Clutter: Tips for keeping Christmas clutter under control and reducing waste.
• Decluttering with Depression: Heather shares her personal experience and strategies for managing clutter when mental health is a challenge.
• Floordrobes and Wardrobe Solutions: Practical tips for handling clothes clutter in a way that works with your habits.

Whether you’re just starting your decluttering journey or are looking to stay motivated, this episode is filled with insights and gentle encouragement. Heather’s unique approach is tailored to support neurodivergent thinkers and anyone who needs a bit of extra help organising their space and mind.

Thank you to everyone who has listened, shared, and supported Decluttering Untangled over the past year. Your feedback and stories make this journey so rewarding. Here’s to another year of untangling our lives!

Want to Help More People Find Us?
If you’ve enjoyed this episode, please leave a review and share it with someone who might find it helpful. Every review and share helps us reach more people who need support on their decluttering journey.

Tune in, get inspired, and keep untangling!

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram

Send me a text message about this podcast

In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the pressures of striving for a "perfect" neurotypical home and why it's time to let go of unrealistic expectations. Heather explains how neurodivergent individuals can create a home that truly works for them, rather than mimicking the pristine, minimalist aesthetic often seen on social media.

Heather dives into the differences between neurotypical and neurodivergent homes, shedding light on why traditional organisation systems and routines often don’t align with the needs of those with ADHD, autism, or other neurodivergent traits. She encourages listeners to redefine what “organised” looks like, focusing on accessibility and ease rather than aesthetics alone.

Here’s what's covered:

• Breaking the “Perfect Home” Illusion: Why we need to stop chasing after homes that look neurotypical, clutter-free, and completely pristine.
• Why Insta-Worthy Isn’t Always Realistic: A look at why those picture-perfect homes often don’t work for neurodivergent brains, and how they can actually add stress instead of bringing comfort.
• Creating a Home That Works for You: Practical tips to make your space accessible and functional based on your needs, whether that means visible storage, unconventional routines, or personalised organisation.
• Redefining Beauty and Functionality: How to make your home feel welcoming and beautiful without sacrificing ease or piling on more unrealistic expectations.
• Sensory-Friendly Spaces: The importance of sensory comfort—like lighting, textures, and sounds—in creating a home that feels truly yours.

Listeners will come away with practical tips on:

• Creating systems that prioritise accessibility over appearance.
• Incorporating sensory-friendly elements to make their spaces more comfortable.
• Building routines that account for motivation, executive function challenges, and fluctuating energy levels.
• Embracing visible storage solutions and learning how to adapt them to look beautiful once the routine is established.

Heather’s insights offer permission to embrace a unique, personal approach to home organisation. Tune in for an empowering discussion on making your space a true reflection of yourself—free from the pressure to conform to neurotypical standards.

Join my free Declutter Community for real support, tips and advice from Heather and other Untanglers that are just like you!

Follow me on Facebook

Buy my Declutter Your Home Planner from Amazon to start to declutter your home yourself! (affiliate link)

Grab my current freebies to support a cleaner, tidier home.

Follow me on instagram